He loves you, he loves you not. If you
suspect your new boyfriend has fallen
head-over-heels for you, look for the
hard-to-miss signs that he’s in love with
you.
Signs that he is in love with you: He
treats you with respect
When a man is in love with a woman, he
respects her. He cares about the details
of her life. He treats her well. If your guy
values your opinions, compliments your
character, celebrates your
accomplishments, pays attention to
details, and even accommodates your
quirky habits — He stocks the fridge with
Diet Coke even though he can’t stand the
stuff, for example — you’ve got a keeper
who’s falling fast and hard for you.
Signs that he is in love with you: You’re
always on his mind
Does he send you funny texts during the
day? Do songs, signs and hilarious
headlines remind him of you? Does he
Google last night’s unresolved debate —
“Which is healthier: ice cream or gelato?”
— when he’s at work? When you become
a very present part of his day even when
you’re apart, he’s invested in the
relationship.
Signs that he is in love with you: He
compromises
Love can soften the heart. Being right
isn’t as important as doing right by the
other person. When your beau starts to
meet you in the middle on topics he’s
typically stubborn about — Maybe he’s a
movie snob suddenly willing to let you
pick a flick he’d otherwise never watch —
he’s leading with his heart instead of his
head. Signs of selflessness are huge
indicators that he’s in love.
Signs that he is in love with you: He
touches you in public
Most guys have no qualms about
touching their girlfriends in private. With
public displays of affection, however, they
can be a little more hesitant. When your
man puts his arm around you in public,
he’s both proudly announcing to the world
that you’re together and making a
protective gesture. Another love gesture:
when he starts offering the hugs and
cuddles you crave, with no expectation of
sex. He wants to serve you with physical
touch, not use it just to get what he
wants.
Signs that he is in love with you: He
wants to take care of you
Women often roll their eyes at men’s “fix
it” instincts; and while he may not be able
to fix every bad day, the fact that he tries
only points to the fact that he deeply
cares about you. He wants to make
things better. He wants to provide for
you, practically and emotionally. He
wants to make you smile. When he puts
in the effort to comfort and reassure you,
he’s saying “I love you” in both word and
deed.
Signs that he is in love with you: He
wants you to love his family
Does he want you to meet everyone
who’s important to him? When he’s ready
to introduce you to people who matter
most — and is equally eager to meet your
friends and family — he has no intentions
of going anywhere. He’s proud to be with
you and wants his family to fall in love
with you, too.
Signs that he is in love with you: He’s not
afraid to fight — or apologize
Sometimes it takes a fight or two to
understand just how strong a relationship
is. A man in love is one who isn’t afraid of
conflict — or apologies. Instead, he fights
fair, respects you when things get rocky,
listens to your perspective, hates to see
you upset, and wants to resolve things
well. “Love means never having to say
you’re sorry” is the most inaccurate
movie tagline ever. (Sorry, “Love Story.”)
Love means dropping the pride, admitting
when you’re wrong and never being
afraid to say you’re sorry.
Signs that he is in love with you: “We”
has replaced “I”
Listen to his word choices. When he
starts using words like “we,” “us,” and
“Team Awesome” — Each guy will have
his own way to describe the unit you’ve
become — he’s not thinking of himself as
a single man anymore. You’re now part of
his life. And he loves that.
Signs that he is in love with you: When he
talks about the future, you’re in it
Does he make plans for the future that
include you? Did he invite you to his
buddy’s wedding next fall? Does he joke
about your future children together?
When he’s got a future with you on his
mind, he’s already decided that he has no
intentions of letting you go.
Signs that he is in love with you: He says
so
If he says he loves you, believe him. A
man in love can’t keep it to himself for
long.

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