5 top signs to show he truly likes you

Trust me, I know how confusing and frustrating
it can be at times but the fact remains that when
a guy likes you, it is obvious….you just need to
know what signs to look for.
Read on for five tell-tale signs that he for sure
likes you.
1. He initiates.
If you’re at a party, he comes up to you and
strikes up a conversation. If you’re not in the
same immediate vicinity, he reaches out to you.
Finding an excuse to talk to you doesn’t require
much creativity. If he wants to get your
attention, he’ll think of something.
If a guy likes you, he might ask you for things he
didn’t necessarily need to ask you, or starts a
conversation he didn’t need to have with you.
Maybe his company is hiring and he asks if you
know anyone looking for a job, or he knows
someone looking for a roommate and he asks if
you know anyone, or he asks if you have any
recommendations for a place to take his parents
for dinner. When he wants to get your
attention, he’ll think of something, even if he
just makes it up.
2. Listens to what you say and remembers the
details.
When we like someone, we can’t get enough.
We want to know every detail, every story,
even the insignificant ones. If a guy asks you a
lot of questions about yourself and your life and
shows a genuine interest in who you are and
what you like, he is investing in you. You’ll get
further confirmation of this if he remembers the
things you told him: where you went to high-
school, your major in college, the name of your
first pet.
3. Body language cues.
A guy might come across all slick, but his body
language can tell you a lot about how he really
feels. Mirroring is one way to assess if he’s into
you. If you notice that he mimics your body
language, it means he’s trying to connect to you
and is completely focused on you. Other body
language cues to look out for is if he leans in
when talking to you, maintains eye contact, and
points his feet towards you.
Also notice if he looks at you after he makes a
joke or does something funny. If he likes you,
he’ll look to see your reaction right away. Many
experts claim that a guy’s pupil will dilate if he’s
interested but this can be kind of tricky to
assess. Another strong tell is if he finds ways to
touch you. It could be “accidental” like brushing
against your arm, seemingly innocent like a
high-five that lingers a little longer that it
usually would, or intentional like putting his
hand on your when you’re telling a story.
4. Acts different around you.
If a guy likes you, he’ll act a little different when
he’s around you. He might seem a bit nervous
and fidgety, or maybe he tones down his usual
“macho” attitude. You may notice he seems a
little flustered or maybe even blushes a bit
when you talk to him. If he behaves differently
with you than other people in his life it’s a sign
that he holds you in a different regard. Pay
attention to the way he is with his friends and
other people to get a baseline for how he
usually acts. For example, if he flirts with
everyone or is super friendly and attentive
when he talks to anyone then it won’t
necessarily mean as much if he acts that way
with you.
5. He compliments your appearance.
Every guy I spoke to while gathering intel for
this article said complimenting a girl’s
appearance is the clearest sign that a guy is
interested. If a guy is into you, he’ll pay close
attention to your appearance and won’t be shy
about letting you know it. Compliments are his
way of telling you he notices you and wants to
make you feel good. The only caveat is if it’s a
guy who is already a close friend of yours. In
that case, he might be complimenting you to be
nice and doesn’t think you’ll take it the wrong
way.
So there you have it, the strongest indicators
that a guy is interested in you. Hope this gives
you a bit of clarity and clears up any confusion
for those grappling with the age old does he or
doesn’t he question.